Executive Function Is More Than Getting Organized.

At Igniting Your Mind, we help children, teens, college students, adults, and families build the internal skills that make self-directed action possible.

Self-awareness. Regulation. Internal language. Future thinking. Flexibility. Follow-through.

Because the goal is building the skills to manage life with greater confidence, responsibility, and independence.

Does this sound familiar?

You know what needs to be done, but getting started or following through is another story.

You find yourself relying on reminders, prompts, alarms, lists, or other people just to keep things moving.

Time seems to disappear, deadlines sneak up, and transitions or changes in plans feel harder than they should.

You create systems to stay organized, but maintaining them consistently is the hard part.

Stress, frustration, or big emotions can take over before the thinking brain catches up.

Boring, difficult, or non-preferred tasks are easy to avoid, delay, or abandon altogether.

Maybe you see this in your child. Maybe you see it in your college student, your family, or yourself.

Executive function challenges change across ages and stages of life, but one experience is remarkably common: knowing what to do and actually doing it are two different things.

That gap is where our work begins.

Support That Builds Skills

The right support should make life more manageable today while building the skills needed for tomorrow.

At Igniting Your Mind, we meet individuals where they are developmentally, identify what is getting in the way, and provide the right level of structure and support to help them move forward.

Sometimes that means putting external systems in place. Sometimes it means direct teaching, modeling, or accountability. And sometimes it means backing all the way up to foundational executive function skills because we realize those skills were never explicitly taught in the first place.

For families, it may also mean helping parents recognize when their child needs more support, when to step back, and how to create opportunities for them to begin doing more of the thinking and problem solving for themselves.

Focus Areas

Executive function touches nearly every part of daily life.

While every person’s needs are different, our work commonly supports growth in:

These areas don’t exist in isolation; they interact and grow together through real-world experiences, where there is context for learning them.


Support is always flexible, individualized, collaborative, and adjusts as needs and environments change.

From Support to Independence

Executive function develops within the individual, but lasting growth comes from building internal skills while also creating environments, expectations, and supports that help those skills develop and transfer to everyday life.

01
Understand What’s Getting in the Way

Look beyond the behavior or immediate struggle to understand where executive function is breaking down and what skills or supports may be missing.

02
Build the Skills & Systems

Together, we focus on strengthening the internal systems that drive follow-through — including visualization, self-talk, and awareness — while layering in simple external supports where they truly help. When parents are involved, support also focuses on understanding their child more deeply, strengthening connection, and building a sustainable parenting approach that aligns with long-term outcomes shown in current research.

Provide the right amount of support now while gradually transferring more responsibility, problem-solving, and ownership to the individual as skills grow.

03
Build Toward Independence

Testimonials

  • Nicole offered me support in so many ways anywhere from academic support to just stuff going on in my personal life. She also didn't help me because it was just her job, it was clear she really cared, unlike so many others in my life who claimed to be there to "support" me. Nicole helped me So much. Thank you!

    — Shay, 20, Trade School Student

  • Nicole is fabulous. She completely understands the challenges posed by executive dysfunction and knows how to help. Look no further!

    — Mom of a 20 year old

  • Nicole has so much to offer ! Her training and resources are invaluable to say the least. I am so very thankful to have found her.

    — Jillian, Mom of Middle Schooler

  • I have met very few people in my life who have the ability to connect with teens in such an honest and true manner. You are always so genuine and compassionate when you work with my son.

    — Mom of a 12th grader

  • I learned more about myself and my brain in 1 hour than I had in my life! The experience and communication and confidence I gained after my experience was something you can not put a price on!

    — Aaron, 29

  • "Nicole seriously changed my life and has helped me so so much with anything and everything that I needed help with. She seriously is such an amazing person and I definitely recommended working with her!!"

    — Brooke, Texas A&M Student

  • I am really fortunate to have found Nicole through her FB page while we were looking for EF information online. The amount of knowledge and extra effort Nicole put on the FB first caught my attention, and then we started the journey with Nicole to help and guide my kid. Nicole always goes beyond to provide help, it is very impressive how Nicole makes herself available to both my kid and us, the parents. Her sessions not only give my kid specific time/stress management methods, but also great emotional support to let them feel hopeful while struggling with EF skills. She is so knowledgeable, compassionate and positive. I learned so much from her! We really appreciate all the support from Nicole!"

    Parent of a U of VA College Student

  • We have had an amazing experience. We have found Nicole to be honest, up front and extremely knowledgeable. She helped our student gain independence, confidence (priceless) as well as self advocacy skills. As well as helping us navigate our executive functioning challenges in the classroom and helping to work with the school to meet his full potential. Highly recommend Igniting your mind, it was a game changing experince for us.

    Mother of an 8th grade student

  • Nicole has positively impacted our family with Igniting Your Mind - Executive Function Coaching & Consulting. Her insights are not only relatable but truly transformative. The actionable strategies she shares have helped both my son and me in ways I couldn't have imagined, offering fresh perspectives that inspire, empower, and educate.

    Naoma Jones, Parent 

  • Ms. Rouleau is a great listener and she’s great at giving advice, she is smart, a good problem solver and overall, good at what she does.New List Item

    High School Student, 15

  • Nicole Rouleau has helped me emotionally grow as an individual and helped me strengthen my grades. She taught me how to plan you plan and prioritize. At first I didn’t know how to regulate my emotions, but she was always there to help me. Nicole Rouleau supported me in academics and emotional/social things. She is my mentor and a role model. I can’t begin to explain everything that she has helped me accomplish, but to name one big one… it’s how to regulate in the real world. She cares so much about people...Nicole is incredibly motivational.

    Jay, 19, College Student, Mitchell College

  • Back when I first started meeting with Nicole, I was a total recluse that barely left my room or did anything for myself. Now I am going back to school, got my driver's permit, and I'm improving my basic functioning thanks to her guidance and support. Her work is extremely helpful.

    Katelyn, 20, College Student, Chestnut HIll College

  • Nicole is amazing!! She works very well with my son and is very responsive to any questions/concerns we have - she truly wants my son to succeed!!!

    Mother of a Gettysburg College Student

  • I was going through a difficult time in my life and my ADHD symptoms were through the roof. I had just failed one of my courses in nursing school and knew I had to do something to get myself back on track, because medication was not doing it. Nicole has extensive knowledge about executive function and taught me skills that help make my life more productive yet less stressful. She also helped me work through some of the shame I felt about having such a difficult time following through with my responsibilities and helped me understand that my mind just works differently. The individual attention she provides is above and beyond. I think she works mostly with younger students but this 35 year old just graduated from nursing school thanks to her!

    Billy, 35

  • Nicole did an outstanding job connecting with both students and parents during our special event. We are so grateful for her time and all the information and resources she shared with our school! Thank you!​

    Martinez Middle School - Lutz, FL Review

  • I just got my own first studio apartment at college. I want to thank Nicole for all the hard work teaching me to never give up and appreciate all the advice given to me. Grateful for all the motivating moments and lessons. I am so blessed to be taught by an amazing mentor.

    Connor, 19, Lynn University

  • Nicole not only helped her students to become great students, but she also helped educators like myself. As a teacher, the stress of the year had started to take a toll on me. One day while meeting with Nicole I started talking about things that I could use some help on, and she gave me all these resources and ideas that could help me in the classroom. For someone with executive function issues, she was an amazing resource to help me with some of my struggles, like planning and presenting things. If it was not for Nicole, I would have never had the tools to become the person I am today. I am even able to pass some of her strategies onto my current students who also struggle.

    Classroom teacher who received executive function support for herself and her students

  • Ms. Rouleau is an incredible advocate for children and families. She is astute, sees the whole child/picture and knows how to engage and make learning fun. Worth her weight in gold.

    Mother of a 10th grade student

  • I can't express enough gratitude for the exceptional support our son received from Nicole. From the moment we met her , she provided invaluable guidance during a critical transition into a new school for my son. Her mentorship played a pivotal role in nurturing our son's self-advocacy skills, goal-setting abilities, and overall confidence. Beyond that, Nicole also provided remarkable SAT tutoring support, which may have contributed to his recent achievement of being accepted into Cornell. Her dedication, expertise, and genuine care for my son is truly remarkable. My son's accomplishments are a testament to Nicole’s commitment to nurturing young minds. We are grateful for the positive impact Nicole has had on our son's journey. Thank you for helping him reach new heights!

    Mother of a Cornell University College Student

  • I am passionate about early years education and interventions for children presenting with EF challenges, I went searching for a pathway into Ef. And it was a minefield. Nicole contacted me offering advise on where to find proper support in the area. She was very informed and pointed me in the correct direction. Thank you Nicole!

    Edelle, EF Coach Trainee

  • Nicole, since the day I met her has always helped me not only understand how my mind works, but to use strategies to help the way my mind is designed. This helped my confidence and she has shown me "it is possible" and "there is always a solution to a problem." I continue to use the strategies she taught me everyday and cannot thank her enough.

    Amber, 19, Cosmetology Student, Portland, OR

  • We are thrilled with our son's progress and success this year working with you - his confidence is stronger than ever and he is happy and well acclimated in many new ways. Priceless ……. He adores and respects you very much!!!! He is always so happy to have your time and support and no longer is relying on us !!!

    Mother of a Lynn University Student

  • Nicole responded quickly when I had a question about strategies for students with weak processing speed. She sent me practical strategies within days - she even took time to revise to make sure the strategies worked for middle grades instead of high school. I am excited to use the strategies and to dig into the rest of her content. Thank you, Nicole!!

    Susan, a Middle School Teacher

  • Thank you for being a light at the end of our tunnel.

    Mother of a 10th grade student

  • Nicole has gone above and beyond to help our son get organized, college ready and stay on track. Unfortunately, none of the techniques or methods she uses are a part of our nationally ranked public school. The training she offers has been so worth it.

    Tracy, mother of a 12th grade student

  • Nicole is a genuine asset to your child. She has helped ours so much; the teachers all commented how our child was so much different at the end of the year than the first. EF coaching still probably feels “new” and I hope schools begin to embrace the benefits and life altering changes it can have on our children’s futures.

    Mother of a 6th grade student

  • We have had an amazing experience. We have found Nicole to be honest, up front and extremely knowledgeable. She helped our student gain independence, confidence (priceless) as well as self advocacy skills. As well as helping us navigate our executive functioning challenges in the classroom and helping to work with the school to meet his full potential. Highly recommend Igniting your mind, it was a game changing experince for us.

    Mother of an 8th grade student

  • Nicole has helped our family tremendously. She worked with my husband and I on strategies to help our girls with executive functioning skills. Nicole met us where we were at, gave us a wealth of information and taught us strategies and ways to implement tools based on our family. She was extremely empathetic , kind, knowledgeable and care comes through the screen during meetings! We can’t thank her enough and will honestly continue to use her resources, strategies and coaching for years to come! We plan on continuing coaching in some capacity down the road too. If everyone had a Nicole in their family family toolbox of tips!

    Jenna, Mom who received parent coaching for her 2 children with ADHD

  • I worked with Nicole when we were colleagues at a school for students with learning differences. I watched her connect with some of our most challenging students. She worked magic with students during COVID, and she always found a way to empower students. My own son struggled with his first semester of college after COVID. When he decided to transfer, we knew we needed a new plan to set him up for success. We connected with Nicole, and she empowered our son to start over. They met twice a week. She helped with accountability, organization, and study skills. We all found Nicole’s support, encouragement, and coaching invaluable. I would highly recommend her. My only regret is that we did not use her services sooner!

    Megan, former colleague and mom of a college student who received EF Coaching with IYM

  • Nicole provides great resources for teachers to use with their students.

    Teacher who received EF tools and training from IYM

  • Nicole is so great. She is generous with her time and her knowledge. She helped me to review and really dig into my daughter’s IEP and offered many great suggestions, and not only in regards to EF! She has a wealth of experience and a passion that shows for kids, their parents and EF.

    Mom of Middle and HS daughters

  • Nicole has so much to offer ! Her training and resources are invaluable to say the least. I am so very thankful to have found her.

    Jillian, mom and teacher who benefited from EF training

  • Nicole is amazing and super flexible/understanding. She is always willing to meet you where you are at. She’s provided me with me with so much insight into my ADHD and helped tailor her resources to my specific needs/interests.

    Anthony, Adult EF Coaching Client

  • Sitting through your workshop and then speaking with you afterward, I felt a renewed energy that I now have leaned parenting tools that could really work. It was as if you observed a week in my house and then figured out how to make everyone not lose their minds. I’m looking forward to introducing and implementing these concepts to my family. I even mentioned it to my 9 year old as we were leaving her softball practice last night.

    LaToya, mom who attended a school-based parent workshop

  • I can’t recommend Igniting Your Mind enough! Nicole is an incredible support system and has never lied when she says “I’ll be here whenever you need help”. Her guidance was amazing and she helped me with everything from strategic planning and staying productive, to setting clear goals and even crafting effective emails. She also provided excellent advice on time management, which made a huge difference in keeping me on track. Her support made what could have been a very stressful time much more manageable and successful. Besides also helping with work she is also a very good listener in everything else and has become one of the trusted adults in my life. Nicole is amazing and so is her business Igniting Your mind and I would not be thriving how I am without her.

    Rebecca, 19 - College Student

  • I have been working with Nicole for YEARS and I have never had a complaint. She’s supportive, caring and EXTREMELY HELPFUL! My son loves her as well. I trust her and cannot recommend her enough!

    Parent Coaching Client

  • I’m so thankful I found Nicole! I have followed her Executive Functioning Facebook page for quite a while and decided to reach out. I’m so glad I did, she has so many resources available and at different price points. I was able to get exactly what I needed to move forward in my Executive Functioning journey. Thank you Nicole!

    Christel, Mom working through her EF Journey

  • Nicole is a wealth of knowledge and truly cares about the future of children and young adults. If you are struggling with the next steps of what to do with your child that is struggling in school or life, reach out to her, you won’t regret it!

    Jess, Mom of two ND boys

  • As a parent of multiple children with Adhd I have tried many different things to help them throughout the years. I have to say having an executive function coach has been one of the most effective things i have done both for me as a parent and for my child. Nicole has a wealth of experience, knowledge and a heart of gold. I am grateful to have her help and wisdom to help me help my child thrive.

    Allison, Supermom of 4 ND children

  • We found this group on TikTok, and from the start we felt heard and understood. We have the fortune of working with Nicole and she nails our situation on the head without fail. She anticipates our needs and coaches us through all our scenarios for our elementary and middle school aged children. Nicole is accessible, flexible, and accommodating. We are going to continue working with the team to help us navigate our two children and how to help us parent in a supportive way. Nicole’s tricks and techniques already made a huge impact on our family dynamic. It’s well worth the investment. 10/10

    Pam, mom of 2 boys, 9 & 11, both with ADHD

  • I can’t recommend Igniting Your Mind enough! Nicole Rouleau is an incredible support system and has never lied when she says “I’ll be here whenever you need help”. Her guidance was amazing and she helped me with everything from strategic planning and staying productive, to setting clear goals and even crafting effective emails. She also provided excellent advice on time management, which made a huge difference in keeping me on track. Her support made what could have been a very stressful time much more manageable and successful. Besides also helping with work she is also a very good listener in everything else and has become one of the trusted adults in my life. Nicole is amazing and so is her business Igniting Your mind and I would not be thriving how I am without her.

    Rebecca, College Freshman, West Chester University

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